This year started off rocky for my family as we lost the matriarch of our family. My mother, the lady that was very strong, very determined, and bullheaded, as well as stubborn as she born passed away. She left a lot of sorrow behind in our hearts. We mourn her constantly. We miss her dearly. I cherish the moments we shared. I remember her always doing her crazy dancing (and she had no rhythm at all). I remember her always cooking and trying out things regardless of the culture. I remember her being as miserable as a mother can be to her child, but mostly I remember her love. Her love of her children, each and every one of us. At times I doubted that love and vocalized it to my friend Pat, but he reassured me and I got back on track.
Too many times we take people for granted, we use people for our personal gain and we don't take the time to realize what that does to the people that we are using for our own needs. If I don't ever pledge another thing I do want to pledge to be a better person and love unconditionally. Free myself from all the drama, hatred, self-loathing, and worst of all the self-hatred.
Love the one you with or find another.
Love or leave, if you are not satisfied then don't waste people's time or energy.
In the year coming cherish every little thing about your loved ones. Take the time to make them feel special with the little things that we CONSTANTLY take for granted.
I wish you all the best. Much love and as always Smooches
Inspire. Motivate. Enrich. Bless. Cherish. Love.